A woman sat weeping by the beach.

A monk walked past her and saw her crying.

"Why are you crying, madam?"

The woman sobbed,

"I just broke up with my boyfriend!"

The monk stood still for a while and burst out in laughter.

The woman was shocked and demanded an explanation angily.

The monk smiled and replied,

" You have lost someone who does not care about you,
but he has lost someone who truely loves and cares for him.

Tell me,
who should be the one crying?"